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Wednesday, October 26th, 2005
I just read a News.com article where the author shares his experience in selecting an elementary school for his child and he also opines about the state of education as he sees it.
He talks about children being interviewed and being asked to solve problems. About children being observed during these evaluations. All in the name of getting into the “right” school… AT AGE 4! Don’t get me wrong, I believe in getting a great education, in achievement, in excellence, but when do kids get to be kids.
I don’t know where the author lives, but I’ll make a guess that it is in Silicon Valley. I might further guess that it’s Cupertino because of the reference to the Japanese-language immersion school. But the Silicon Valley generalization is close enough. In the Valley, everyone has first hand knowledge that a great education is on the general path to success. We have two of the best schools in the country in Berkeley (fine it’s in the East Bay, but close enough) and Stanford. We also attract people from the other fine institutions in the country. And we have one of the higher standards of living in the country (and cost of living). Most people would agree that there is some correlation between the two.
Living in this environment puts a certain lense on education, namely that you can’t be successful without one and that the better the education the more successful you will be. So, if you want your children to be successful than they must have a good education and if you want them to be the most successful they must have the best education. Who doesn’t want their child to be super successful? Thus the competition to get into the best schools and the tightening of admissions requirements as the demand increases for those schools.
My brother experienced this and I think it’s part of the reason that he is no longer teaching. I experience this on a regular basis with co-workers and others talking about the outside language and study classes and comparisons of schools and school districts. Is the world really that different? Have the laws of success changed? Has the meaning of success changed?
Hey, I’m a product of Lowell High School one of the top high schools in California if not the nation. I also went to Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute one of the top schools in engineering. I do place a high value on a quality education, but do I believe I would be less successful if I had gone to Lincoln or San Jose State? Heck no. My parents instilled in me the values of a good education and hard work. These are what have made me successful. I hardly remember anything from either high school or college except for the people and I use almost none of what I learned in my career. But by continuing to learn and working hard, I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished. Am I successful? By my definition, yes! Can I be more successful? Yes! Is it going to take getting additional education from Stanford? Heck no! It’s going to take hard work, desire, self exploration, and learning that no school, other than the school of life/hard knocks can teach.
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Tuesday, September 13th, 2005
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
We had a great day at the Giants game this past Sunday. Erin, Emi, and I went to celebrate my birthday. We had tickets in the club area which was great. It did bring back fond and not so fond memories of my gForce days. Noah Lowry was awesome and so was Emi she lasted 7 strong innings (Noah lasted 8 innings) and she did some great cheering yelling, “Go Giants!”
On Monday I watched Matt Cain pitch and I was very impressed. He has a live fastball and great composure for a 20 year-old. I also heard an interview with him on KNBR. Very well spoken and intelligent. Certainly didn’t sound like a typical 20 year-old. The Giants could use a couple more pitchers like him.
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
We’re going to be in Lake Tahoe for vacation. Going to play some golf, read, and likely swim a lot with Emi. I don’t know if the places we’re staying at have internet access, so I might not be posting for a bit if they don’t.
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
I think one of the biggest things I want to pass on to my daughter is an understanding that continuous learning is a key to happiness. If you are willing to put in the effort to learn something new, you can grow your way out of any problems you encounter. Continuous learning feeds on itself. The more you learn the easier it is to pickup the next thing. You see patterns and understand what works for you.
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
Erin’s away at a scrapbooking convention and Emi is with Baachan and Jiichan. I’m home alone blogging and rearranging furniture. I’m also working on some 3D programming, so all is not lost.
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
According to this story, “a man’s nipples are perfectly suited to soothing a crying baby…” Some report on fatherhood names the Aka Pygmies the best fathers in part because they offer their nipple to calm their babies. Sorry, Emi, I don’t have the moobs to pull that off.
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
Check out the music video “Can I Live?” over at http:///www.nickcannonmusic.com. This is how you debate the Pro-Life issue. Laws banning abortion aren’t going to make a difference in this day and age. If Roe v. Wade were overturned, most states would have state constitutional amendments on the ballot ASAP (California would probably hold a special election inside of a week). Personal privacy is too ingrained in our society. Change people’s hearts that’s how you win.
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Sunday, September 11th, 2005
Happy Father’s Day to all fathers. My Dad is the little guy on the right. I never got to meet either of my Grandfathers, so I’m glad my daughter has been able to know both of her’s. I wouldn’t be the person I am without both of my parents and I’m glad there’s a day set aside for each of them and not just one generic “Parent’s Day.”
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